Today I caught up with two other writers, and it reminded me how important it is not follow into the trap of isolation. Sure, I can connect with other writers online and I do pretty well writing on my own, but the synergy of actually sitting down with a real person and bouncing off story ideas is just not the same as sending email queries from my apartment. The first girl I met for coffee writes a dating column, and our conversation gave me a great idea for an article I plan to write (one that I haven't read before, which is huge). Rachel, the second one, is a more seasoned writer I meet on a semi-regular basis to talk shop and have dinner. Her experience and my enthusiasm are a great combo, and I came away with a ton of tips and new ideas.Since it's often helpful to write down your goals and stay accountable, here are some of my dream target publications (ambitious, yes, but not impossible):
- Self Magazine - I have a few ideas for 15 Minutes to your Best Self, one of their FOB sections
- Girl's Life - so I can share my cool-older-sisterly advice with the younger sisters I always wanted, and I admit part of me still likes to watch The OC and pretend I'm 15 again
- Tango Magazine - who wouldn't love a whole magazine devoted to relationships?
- Cooking Light - love, love, love the big, juicy photos and practical advice on cooking, travel and fitness
- Chicken Soup for the Soul - the ultimate for personal essay writers
What are your dream writing gigs?